Aug 20, 2007

renewing the stretch

I'm sitting around happily buttplugged tonight. The temperature outside is down and so's the humidity, so my A/C is off and my windows are open, with the venetian blinds down. Hearing people 30 feet away while sitting around my house naked with an ass-cork is rather arousing.

But I took SO much time off from plugs that I am having to retrain myself almost from scratch. For anyone who's ever asked if a plug or taking it up the ass will permanently stretch their asshole... NO. Believe me, it gets tight again. Feels like tighter than ever.

I have my medium dilator in my ass right now. And though my rectum is begging for the large one, just screaming for something longer and thicker, my anus is all like, "whoa there, big boy, let's take it easy." My anus keeps contracting around the neck of the dilator like I'm some kind of anal virgin.

Oh, well. I have all the time in the world.

This is me wearing my new Severin II buttplug.

Aug 6, 2007

I'm back!

I just got back yesterday from an extended vacation, during which there was absolutely no plugging. In fact, not even enough time for masturbation. In five weeks, I masturbated exactly three times. I was just too busy and there were always people around.

So you can imagine my joy at coming home and relaxing with my buttplug collection. Inserting my favorite one, the fat anal dilator, was like being greeted by an old friend, only it had been so long, I felt like a virgin. I'm sitting on the dilator again tonight and I swear it feels even bigger than last night's short session. I hope to wear it to bed tonight.

Got this email today from an anonymous poster:


My lover and I want to try wearing anal plugs on a daily basis. The trouble we are having is finding a plug that is discrete enough to allow us to wear while at work, or just out and about with little impact on clothing, etc.

Can you recommend a type or brand of plug that works well for everyday use?


Well, Anonymous, you might want to look for the Purple Passion (seen in my medicine cabinet a post or two ago), the Tristan, or the Severin. The ComfortPlug is also pretty good, if you can find it, but some people actually find it too small. I would not suggest a metal plug because it is inflexible and even though the neck is small, the plug is heavy enough to be a problem for an untrained asshole. (I'm thinking of the small metal plugs marketed as anal jewelry - while they are very nice and might be fun for home use, I can't see wearing one all day without risk of slippage.) You'll also want to practice using and inserting your plug with a minimum amount of lube; this helps with retention. Ultimately, you may have to try out several medium-sized plugs before finding one comfortable enough for extended wear. And don't forget to do dry runs AT HOME before wearing to work. Try wearing for an evening, then all night, then all day on a weekend, etc.

Good luck.