Dec 2, 2005

sleeping with a buttplug in

If you've been wondering how long a person can wear a buttplug, or have been contemplating sleeping with a buttplug in your ass, as I do, you might find the following helpful.

I've been sleeping with a buttplug up my ass four to six nights a week for nearly 18 months now; it's pretty much a permanent feature of my bedtime routine, whether or not I've been wearing a buttplug that day or not.

The main thing to remember is that your ass and rectum must be trained to do this. As you no doubt are aware, the longer you use buttplugs, the longer you can wear one in one sitting. As time progresses, you may go from a mere 15 minutes up to several hours.

Sleeping while plugged is only an extension of this. If you can comfortably wear a particular plug for several hours, at least five, then you are ready to try sleeping with that little toy plugging your ass.

First, you will want to choose a plug that is so comfortable to you that as you walk around, going about your daily business, you routinely forget that it's back there. This is to ensure that you aren't putting new or uncomfortable (and potentially damaging) pressures on the various muscles and tissues you'll be affecting. Second, make sure that you go to the bathroom before going to bed, really evacuate those bowels. make sure your plug is clean and warm and ready to go. Lube up, plug up, and go to bed. If your ass is truly comfortable with the plug you've chosen, you shouldn't need any form of making sure the plug stays in place - your sphincter muscles should be enough even when relaxed. (However, if you're used to wearing something that ensures the plug doesn't slip out and don't trust yourself when you cough or sneeze, you should continue wearing that insurance. Me, I sleep wearing nothing but the plug; being horizontal seems to be enough insurance against the plug falling out, but also I use a plug that is of medium size, meaning it has a good bulge to neck ratio. I wouldn't recommend trying to keep any of those slim, narrow plugs in without external help.) It helps to take a bath or shower before bed and be really relaxed.

I do not recommend plugs that reach very deep - after all, your body functions will continue and fecal matter will tend to occupy your rectum along with the plug overnight. I'll address what happens in the morning in a bit. I tend to use plugs that are medium in length and girth, though I have worn a short, fat plug overnight several times and I have also tried an 8" dildo - but didn't quite make it through the night with that one. You might have different results.

Your first several nights trying this will NOT be restful ones! Your mind will be too occupied with that fact that you actually have something holding your anus open and shoved up your rectal cavity to sleep well. As your brain goes through the sleep cycles, every time it rises to light sleep, you'll wake up, probably. Don't worry, this lessens over time, just as training yourself to sleep with a different pillow or on a different matress or wearing a PAP mask (you snorers!) takes time. You may also be horny as hell since plug-wearing, after all, is primarily for sexual gratification at first. Wearing a plug overnight simulates having a nice thick cock up your ass all night, though that isn't practical. After several over-night attempts, you should find yourself waking after eight hours of sleep refreshed, well-slept, and happy. You may even be pleasantly surprised once you sit up to be "reminded" that you have a buttplug in your ass!

After awakening, you probably need to go to the bathroom. If you don't, you should go anyway. Do NOT force the plug out by pulling. Overnight, your rectal walls will have absorbed any lubricant you used and instead a thin coating of mucous will have encapsulated the plug, just as it does fecal matter. Just relax and let the plug out with the normal operation of evacuating your bowels and the plug should come out slowly and easily. If you're like me, the plug will come out almost clean, with slight traces of that previously mentioned mucous coat. Once the plug is out, do your business as you usually do, and then you can put the plug back in (after a thorough washing of course!) If you choose to put the plug back in (and I often do, at least for the couple of hours 'til I leave for work), you might find it ridiculously easy, or right back to the same degree of resistance as if your ass were fresh. Sometimes the anal muscles will be sore. Soreness prompts rest, so don't push it. You can always put the plug away and come back to it when your butt feels better.

And that's it!


Anonymous said...

I'm like you boy,
can't sleep without my plug.
You can try also big balls and eggs
sleeping with a dildo it's a little hard, try to strap it.

Great blog!

Anonymous said...

I really love every morning
to put out my plug and ride on
my black King Kong dildo, like
right now.

Anonymous said...

I too love my plug...I love the fullness that it gives me. The constant feeling that eminate from my butt. I love the little bit of discomfort as it starts to slide in and stretches the hole. I also love how it allows me to accept larger toys and on the rare occasion, a hand

jack said...

i am 21 year old male and have a 6 inches tall and 2 inches wide butt plug. i can wear it without it slipping out and without pain, however i can't urinate while i am wearing it. does anybody experience the same thing?

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

all of you...wait till u get a little older....

u're lives will b miserable once you realize that the muscles have weakened beyond repair

Anonymous said...


I wear one twice a week including sleeping with it in and running shopping errands, but I find that I only pee a couple of times when the plug is in me and sometimes can't pee unless my bladder is really full.

Have you had the same problem, or any advice on why this happens.

Donna21 said...

Am i the only girl here? I love feeling completely full and often sleep or go out with a plug stretching my ass and a dildo filling my pussy. I have to wear knickers too though because it makes me so wet that the dildo keeps sliding out!

Anonymous said...

Its lovely as you get older and your anal muscles gradually lose all their strength and you can gape wide open all the time. I wear mine 24/7 and only remove it at toilet time. I can take my butt plug for 3 or 4 days and nights now without removal. Just try to go for a really big ip diametre with a more comfortable stem so it does not come out. I don't know if there is a world record for butt plug size - but I would love to try for it.
I am the one on Brighton Beach sunbathing naked with my butt plug in. I also have the 12mm barbell clean through my glans penis

Anonymous said...

I have just got one of those "permanent" butt plugs which is hollow with a removable bung which I can unscrew at "toilet time" which is less and less frequent. After 3 months I am fully incontinent and fully dependent on my plug. Regular upsizing helps eliminating any risk of slip out.

Anonymous said...

I use a tilapia butt plug by TSX toys - it's 10" long and 3.3" diameter my arse sings for joy when I slip it in... Unfortunately it wants to be slipped in several times a day.

As the digestive system has it's own nervous system i can only conclude that my arse hole has an addiction problem... i will have to join the A.A (Arseholes Anonymouse). Where's that lube... YUMMY!

Anonymous said...

I am 16 year old boy I where girls thongs all the time and I do anal with toys the biggest I can fit is 2'' by 4'' I want to get a plug but dont no what size

Anonymous said...

You're not the only girl in here, honey.. I've been toying around with anal play for several years, but recently got a plug that's too damn big.. So looking for ways to train myself and also to be able to enjoy longer sessions with a partner instead of a toy. I would love to be able to do DP, someday perhaps, lol.. And to the 16 year old: I know you are coming of age, but it is really offensive to see you in here. You are opening yourself up to online predators! Please be careful!

Anonymous said...

im a boy and i cant sleep without having a plug in my ass. sometimes i wake up with ejaculation in my pants but its amazing. my boyfriend and i both do it.

Anonymous said...

I sleep with a plug about 75% of nights... its 18 inches long, varnished wood, a bit curved. I put the out end into a big pillow and about 4 lubed inches into me while lying on my side. As I rock back and forth it ejects itself then re-enters very much like being sodomized in spooning position. I usually fall asleep like that. I made this stick from an evergreen branch... its about as sharp as a finger. Needs arevarnish once a year.