Dec 2, 2005

sleeping with a buttplug in

If you've been wondering how long a person can wear a buttplug, or have been contemplating sleeping with a buttplug in your ass, as I do, you might find the following helpful.

I've been sleeping with a buttplug up my ass four to six nights a week for nearly 18 months now; it's pretty much a permanent feature of my bedtime routine, whether or not I've been wearing a buttplug that day or not.

The main thing to remember is that your ass and rectum must be trained to do this. As you no doubt are aware, the longer you use buttplugs, the longer you can wear one in one sitting. As time progresses, you may go from a mere 15 minutes up to several hours.

Sleeping while plugged is only an extension of this. If you can comfortably wear a particular plug for several hours, at least five, then you are ready to try sleeping with that little toy plugging your ass.

First, you will want to choose a plug that is so comfortable to you that as you walk around, going about your daily business, you routinely forget that it's back there. This is to ensure that you aren't putting new or uncomfortable (and potentially damaging) pressures on the various muscles and tissues you'll be affecting. Second, make sure that you go to the bathroom before going to bed, really evacuate those bowels. make sure your plug is clean and warm and ready to go. Lube up, plug up, and go to bed. If your ass is truly comfortable with the plug you've chosen, you shouldn't need any form of making sure the plug stays in place - your sphincter muscles should be enough even when relaxed. (However, if you're used to wearing something that ensures the plug doesn't slip out and don't trust yourself when you cough or sneeze, you should continue wearing that insurance. Me, I sleep wearing nothing but the plug; being horizontal seems to be enough insurance against the plug falling out, but also I use a plug that is of medium size, meaning it has a good bulge to neck ratio. I wouldn't recommend trying to keep any of those slim, narrow plugs in without external help.) It helps to take a bath or shower before bed and be really relaxed.

I do not recommend plugs that reach very deep - after all, your body functions will continue and fecal matter will tend to occupy your rectum along with the plug overnight. I'll address what happens in the morning in a bit. I tend to use plugs that are medium in length and girth, though I have worn a short, fat plug overnight several times and I have also tried an 8" dildo - but didn't quite make it through the night with that one. You might have different results.

Your first several nights trying this will NOT be restful ones! Your mind will be too occupied with that fact that you actually have something holding your anus open and shoved up your rectal cavity to sleep well. As your brain goes through the sleep cycles, every time it rises to light sleep, you'll wake up, probably. Don't worry, this lessens over time, just as training yourself to sleep with a different pillow or on a different matress or wearing a PAP mask (you snorers!) takes time. You may also be horny as hell since plug-wearing, after all, is primarily for sexual gratification at first. Wearing a plug overnight simulates having a nice thick cock up your ass all night, though that isn't practical. After several over-night attempts, you should find yourself waking after eight hours of sleep refreshed, well-slept, and happy. You may even be pleasantly surprised once you sit up to be "reminded" that you have a buttplug in your ass!

After awakening, you probably need to go to the bathroom. If you don't, you should go anyway. Do NOT force the plug out by pulling. Overnight, your rectal walls will have absorbed any lubricant you used and instead a thin coating of mucous will have encapsulated the plug, just as it does fecal matter. Just relax and let the plug out with the normal operation of evacuating your bowels and the plug should come out slowly and easily. If you're like me, the plug will come out almost clean, with slight traces of that previously mentioned mucous coat. Once the plug is out, do your business as you usually do, and then you can put the plug back in (after a thorough washing of course!) If you choose to put the plug back in (and I often do, at least for the couple of hours 'til I leave for work), you might find it ridiculously easy, or right back to the same degree of resistance as if your ass were fresh. Sometimes the anal muscles will be sore. Soreness prompts rest, so don't push it. You can always put the plug away and come back to it when your butt feels better.

And that's it!

61 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm like you boy,
can't sleep without my plug.
You can try also big balls and eggs
sleeping with a dildo it's a little hard, try to strap it.


Great blog!

Anonymous said...

I really love every morning
to put out my plug and ride on
my black King Kong dildo, like
right now.

Anonymous said...

I too love my plug...I love the fullness that it gives me. The constant feeling that eminate from my butt. I love the little bit of discomfort as it starts to slide in and stretches the hole. I also love how it allows me to accept larger toys and on the rare occasion, a hand

Anonymous said...

i am 21 year old male and have a 6 inches tall and 2 inches wide butt plug. i can wear it without it slipping out and without pain, however i can't urinate while i am wearing it. does anybody experience the same thing?

Anonymous said...

hi im new to butt plugs and i my main email is down so if u could could u email me at Big_steve47@hotmail.com plz buttpluglover

Anonymous said...

all of you...wait till u get a little older....

u're lives will b miserable once you realize that the muscles have weakened beyond repair

Anonymous said...

Hi

I wear one twice a week including sleeping with it in and running shopping errands, but I find that I only pee a couple of times when the plug is in me and sometimes can't pee unless my bladder is really full.

Have you had the same problem, or any advice on why this happens.

Donna21 said...

Am i the only girl here? I love feeling completely full and often sleep or go out with a plug stretching my ass and a dildo filling my pussy. I have to wear knickers too though because it makes me so wet that the dildo keeps sliding out!

Anonymous said...

Its lovely as you get older and your anal muscles gradually lose all their strength and you can gape wide open all the time. I wear mine 24/7 and only remove it at toilet time. I can take my butt plug for 3 or 4 days and nights now without removal. Just try to go for a really big ip diametre with a more comfortable stem so it does not come out. I don't know if there is a world record for butt plug size - but I would love to try for it.
I am the one on Brighton Beach sunbathing naked with my butt plug in. I also have the 12mm barbell clean through my glans penis

Anonymous said...

I have just got one of those "permanent" butt plugs which is hollow with a removable bung which I can unscrew at "toilet time" which is less and less frequent. After 3 months I am fully incontinent and fully dependent on my plug. Regular upsizing helps eliminating any risk of slip out.

Anonymous said...

I use a tilapia butt plug by TSX toys - it's 10" long and 3.3" diameter my arse sings for joy when I slip it in... Unfortunately it wants to be slipped in several times a day.

As the digestive system has it's own nervous system i can only conclude that my arse hole has an addiction problem... i will have to join the A.A (Arseholes Anonymouse). Where's that lube... YUMMY!

Anonymous said...

You're not the only girl in here, honey.. I've been toying around with anal play for several years, but recently got a plug that's too damn big.. So looking for ways to train myself and also to be able to enjoy longer sessions with a partner instead of a toy. I would love to be able to do DP, someday perhaps, lol.. And to the 16 year old: I know you are coming of age, but it is really offensive to see you in here. You are opening yourself up to online predators! Please be careful!

Anonymous said...

im a boy and i cant sleep without having a plug in my ass. sometimes i wake up with ejaculation in my pants but its amazing. my boyfriend and i both do it.

Anonymous said...

I sleep with a plug about 75% of nights... its 18 inches long, varnished wood, a bit curved. I put the out end into a big pillow and about 4 lubed inches into me while lying on my side. As I rock back and forth it ejects itself then re-enters very much like being sodomized in spooning position. I usually fall asleep like that. I made this stick from an evergreen branch... its about as sharp as a finger. Needs arevarnish once a year.

Anonymous said...

Hi ive just started doing it proper its good to know these people like me i love it. Ive got a medium and large metal plug and sometime it feels like my ass is suckling it in is that what happen with you??

Anonymous said...

I love to sleep with a plug in my ass! I enjoy the feeling of it. It is no substitute for a large cock in my ass but I love it none the less.

Anonymous said...

Well obviously start smaller, go for the 2"

Anonymous said...

Your sets not the only girl here my partner and I both wear our butt plugs to bed. And I a vibrating egg in my pussy. With remote controll :)

Sachin Mishra said...

I want to wear a butt plug for long term but i have no any butt plug yet. Sometimes i insert a shampoo bottle in my ass for anal pleasure. Recently i ordered a stainless steel butt plug which is 1.5 inches wide. I want to know that is it right size for me while my shampoo bottle us 1.2 inches wide.

Unknown said...

I want to wear a butt plug for long term but i have no any butt plug yet. Sometimes i insert a shampoo bottle in my ass for anal pleasure. Recently i ordered a stainless steel butt plug which is 1.5 inches wide. I want to know that is it right size for me while my shampoo bottle us 1.2 inches wide

Anonymous said...

I have a smaller plug that I have been curious to play with. A Sir suggested I wear it for four hours the other day. Started to find I did not want to take it out. Tonight I will try sleeping with it for the first time. Want to surprise him tomorrow when i tell him what I did.

Anonymous said...

I wish I could have a girl that shares the same fantasies as me.
I have to stretch my add alone. Wearing it to bed is rate butt a surprising exciting event unless I get caught.

Anonymous said...

My most comfortable plug is my doc johnson but it's so long that I feel like it prevents my poop from coming down far enough that I feel the urge to go. I don't want usage to make me constipated. However, I'm an anal freak and I love the idea of wearing a plug often. Can anyone recommend one that is short with flared base? And not a small one. PM me on Skype I'm coz_girl

Anonymous said...

Im a 26 year old boy and i just started sleeping with a dildo about 6 inches and i was really horny at first but i just relaxed and read things and playex games on my phone and now i barely notice its there but it feels so good.

Anonymous said...

Ya man, I used to have that. With practice you can do it. Hold the plug in with one hand while you push, it helps.

Unknown said...

I am a 23 year old female and I've been wearing a butt plug off and on for about a year now. I've recently started wearing one to bed, and I love it.

Anonymous said...

We just wake up all three plugged, me , my wife and our boyfriend

Anonymous said...

It had to do with hitting the prostate gland.

lab007 said...

Iam mal.45 years and i am weaaring a 3 inch diameter tunnelplug now for 3 Years.24/7.Only for cleaning an toilet i unplug it.
For any questions you acan always contact.me at
Tom.cat.123@hotmail.com

lab007 said...

Iam mal.45 years and i am weaaring a 3 inch diameter tunnelplug now for 3 Years.24/7.Only for cleaning an toilet i unplug it.
For any questions you acan always contact.me at
Tom.cat.123@hotmail.com

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Anonymous said...

I am a 13 year old boy reading some of the comments kinda turned me onto the plugged life style I'm wearing one right now

Anonymous said...

Hi, I am a transvestitie and wear a butt plug to bed most of the time, the really important thing is to lube properly .

You will wake up feeling full but happy

Anonymous said...

Hi Donna, love the thought of it slipping out ;-)

Anonymous said...

I am gradually training my BF to sleep restrained and plugged. He has spent a few hours with a ball gag, hands tied in front and fastened to the bedpost, ankles tied and fastened to the bedpost, and with his small buttplug in. The longest he's made it is about 4 hours. I find that pegging him for a few minutes before inserting the plug helps him keep it in longer. He doesn't like it but he's getting used to it. I hope to get to 8 hours by summer. He is very docile and compliant after spending a few hours like that.

خبر said...

Just pure joy.
I weared a thick one in a public and it made me nude.
Love to wear them all day long.

Anonymous said...

Can anyone recommend a butt plug u can sleep in and where to purchase it? I am training my ass for anal sex. So please help. Thanks

Anonymous said...

A shampoo bottle? Wth

Anonymous said...

I wore a 9×2 inch dildo up my ass for 2years 24/7 only taking it out once,daily to do a nice,solid shit that left nothing behind, i wore,this dildo to work , whislt sleeping even over,seas, i quite,often walked around shopping,with two dildos in me,held in withba thong,, i love double anal so i never took it out whilst being,buttfucked, even had two black guys ramming my butthole at the,same,time AND my,dildowas,in also, triple anal!ive got pics email me dazza_smitty@yahoo.com.au

Anonymous said...

You can't urinate with a plug because your urethra is being obstructed. Don't force it, as you may injure yourself. I only know this from reading about sounding- you cannot sound and insert anything anally at the same time.

Anonymous said...

You can't urinate with a plug because your urethra is being obstructed. Don't force it, as you may injure yourself. I only know this from reading about sounding- you cannot sound and insert anything anally at the same time.

Anonymous said...

doc johnson large buttplug

Unknown said...

Exercusing muscles by stretching them makes them stronger.. everytimebyou do a bixcep curl it atretches your muscle..doesnthe bicep get weaker if its "stretched beyond repair" too?

Anonymous said...

I cant wait to try this out in a few days i judt got my first butt plug

Anonymous said...

Im a 20 yr old boy and i have been getting my ass fucked since i was 12, i loved anal from the first time i had his cock in my little ass, the only lube we used was from me working my throat on him, i loved being balls deep with dick in my throat an my ass, i begged him fuck me harder and deeper. I couldnt get enough, he used to come over regularly and fuck me and cum in my ass. Its been awhile now since i had a dick in my ass, im hungry for dick, i got really trned on by this thread. Im a closet sissyfag, I havent come out, but i get really turned on by the fantasy of being a butt slut for multiple guys, i love the idea of being a sissy breeder.

Anonymous said...

I am now at the point where my mistress has installed a very large anal stainless steel tunnelplug together with a chastity belt for months now.
Its diameter is 4,7 inches and at the opening there can be 2 hoses for cleaning,toilet and lubrication connected.Other then that the 2 holes are closed with a rubber plug.Because of the huge diameter of the plug i can do my toilet now every 3 days instead of regularly every day.
The first weeks i had to use a soft pain relief ointment on my anus because the pressure from the plug was huge and painful.After months now slowly increasing the diameter of the plug to 4,7 inches we are working in its way to slowly increase the length of the plug with the same diameter and therefore tying to extend our 3 days toilet to a 2 weeks toilet scedule.
I cannot feel anymore when i have to do my toilet other then my stomach tells me to.And i also have to wear diapers or a latex bermuda to stay dry permemently.My shitload is huge after a few days in my plug.In this case my mistress sometimes connects 2 hoses for flushing out my rectum and afterwards greasing it again without removing the plug or the chastity belt.I cannot remove it anyway because of the Chastity belt.
From time to time she cleans my rectum with her 2 fists deep to her ellbow while having a large speculum attached to it to stay fully open during fisting and cleaning.
I am triple handed fistable right away-she says.
Right now we are still looking for a maufacturer of special anal tunnel plugs where we can modify out tunnelplug to also attach the balls and penis within this anal plug-somehow.(may be a fiction--we will see).
Again. Do not copy my article since this will change your life forever.You will always have to wear the plug you used with its large diameter- your ass will never be original anymore.You will be caught forever with this huge plug for your hole life.
For infos you can always reach me at: tom.cat.123@hotmail.com

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Kinkazoid said...

I don’t have one, but honestly i don’t even know how to start looking for one, or if that one is going to be something i won’t end up regret buying.* i wish i had an expert to help me LOL

Anonymous said...

I love anal play. I have a huge 6 inch wide and 8 inches tall dildo i keep in my anus all day my baby loves it when i shit out everything ive been holding in all day my pussy has a 1 ft dildo strap on in it all day to so i cum while i walk. i love to do self enemas and hose enemas in my dirty ass and cunt.

Anonymous said...

I wear mine off and on for the last three years. I find it the best is when I have not had my plug in for a few months and the wear over night I'm hard almost all night long.

Anonymous said...

@Donna21 I would love to meet you while your out and check if you have the time I and butt plug in x

Anonymous said...

Are you single???

Anonymous said...

Will you then get a bull to service you while he is restrained ???

Unknown said...

I just bought one. For a first timer, it does the job, but I'm already ready for something wider and possibly ribbed. Feel free to contact me jackcwrite@gmail.com

Unknown said...

Always nice to have something deep inside.

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Anonymous said...

I'm a trans girl, I went to college with my plug in today. It's 5 inches tall with a 7.5 inch circumference. Walking around feeling it moving around inside me is amazing. I love it. My husband doesn't even know I'm wearing it now and I'm sitting across the room from him. I'm about to make dinner so I will be able to play with it a bit while I'm in the kitchen. It's so hot sitting down with it inside me, I can move my ass around and the plug moves around too. It feels sooo good. I might actually switch to my inflatable plug and inflate it up as far as I can take. I can't hold it in for long though as it's much bigger than the plug I'm using now. My ass feels amazing.

Unknown said...

What brand thongs do you wear I love to wear thongs and would love to trade notes

Anonymous said...

Is there a chance for the plug to go in all the way and get trapped??

transporter319 said...

Doing this has brought me more peace than anything in my life. I urge everyone to give it a fair shot. I feel more mentally stable than I have in years because of my plug. - Joe Porter, Chicago