Jan 29, 2009

first exercise with my new butty Flare

Wow! Just got in from a jog around the neighborhood with Flare in my needy little asshole. Not bad...not bad at all. It (I haven't decided if Flare is a he or a she yet) stays put pretty good, even when I'm coughing from all the cold air. I have some concern that the round end of the Flare can be seen from behind, but perhaps that was not aproblem today with my baggy running pants and baggy shirt over it.

damn, i am still so cold my fingers don't want to work right. But I'm so stoked from having run (okay, some walking on the icy patches) nearly four miles with this plug in my ass!!!

damn, i need a shower. LOL

Jan 28, 2009

48 hours and counting

I am officially in love with this Tantus Pace plug, which I will be calling Flare from now on. For some reason, it just named itself.

I've known for some time that smaller plugs are easier to wear for long periods (though I like to wear large plugs for quite some time, too!), but it's been a LONG time since I've been able to go 48 hours straight with a plug. (With appropriate removals and insertions for moving my bowels, of course.) So...yeah, 48 hours. Even went to class with it in. No problems at all. Bliss. I've even found that sometimes I don't need any lube to get it back in, either. It just needs to be clean and wet.

And I've had Flare up my ass for most of the time since last Friday morning - I guess five days now. But in the first three days, I had it out for several hours at a time for other reasons.

Tomorrow, I'm going for a jog and we'll see if Flare stays put while exercising.

Jan 26, 2009



Just another try at getting a good pic of that vibrator.

REALLY loving the Pace. good product!

Jan 9, 2009

First Review of the new toys

Well, I have to say I really like both of my new toys, the silver vibrator and the Tantus Alumina Pace.

The vibrator is standard fare, I guess, but the slickness of the metalized plastic makes for easy self-butt-fucking and it's the only toy I've got that vibrates. I may have rectum-fy that, tho. ;) I really love feeling the vibrations and I think it would be better when combined with a good buttplug shape. As it is, I can use this in combination with my anal dilators, as it will fit inside the largest two. This leads to some interesting sensations in my ass and some very conspicuous noise.

Now, the Pace is ... well, it's just outstanding. It isn't large - perhaps 4" long total with 3" insertable. Actually, it isn't meant to be a buttplug, but I'm finding it to be a very comfortable long-term wear plug. It is slender and hypoallergenic. I spent 48 hours wearing it, except for brief bowel evacuations of course, from Tuesday morning through Wednesday night. I had some commitments to take care of that kept me from home all of Thursday and Friday, so now that I'm back, I'm going to see how long I'm in the mood to keep this toy in my asshole. The slenderness helps in the long-term wearability, of course, but the firm aluminum weight of it is a constant reminder something's back there. I would NOT recommend using this as a butt toy for the inexperienced player, as there's no proper flange. You HAVE to know what you're doing with your asshole and rectum and have good control over those parts. But for experienced players, it makes for a very nice experience.

One other note on the Pace: It is the beginning of a whole line of Tantus aluminum dildo-type toys, each with two or three interchangeable parts. Yes, the Flare separates into two parts, via a threaded post. There is a silicone o-ring sealing the two parts, so no nasty junk gets in the mating surfaces. It is worth citing a few words of caution:

a) Tighten the two halves SECURELY. If you do, you should be fine. The anus and rectum are not exactly world-renowned for their ability to take the lids off jars, if you know what I mean.

b) I don't know if the silicon o-ring is good to go with silicone lubes. Knowing Tantus, probably yes. But I can't say for sure. I use KY

c) It's probably best to disassemble it after use, wash, and disinfect, however you choose to do that. I would not skip the disassembly part, as you want to wash out all the microscopic poo. But you probably knew that already.

The toy passes my sit-test: I have a rather small butt, so toys that extend past my anus tend to hit the seat first, unless the flange is very close. This one is OK. I am not certain that it is completely invisible in jeans, though I did take it on a walk-test around the neighborhood. It feels funny when walking around - certainly not as secure as a proper buttplug - but I had no problems with it wanting to fall out, either.

So there you have it. Tantus Pace: A+ Now I'm thinking about getting some of the other products in that line. I get mine from Babeland, which is probably the nicest sex store I've ever set foot in. It's like the Apple store of sex shops.

Jan 7, 2009

Product Photography

Been working on this for a little while. Getting OK at it. The bottom three, click for desktop size (1440x900). :D

Glass buttplug:





Vibrator:



Tantus Alumina Pace:



Dec 20, 2008

Oh GOD!!!!

Time is passing so fast. I've been so, so, so incredibly busy; it's not even funny. So little time for plugging, and no time for posting. Please don't give up on me.

Some news:

- I am responding finally to a backlog of emails and blog comments.
- I have hinted in the past that I started running. Well, many many many months down the line, I did the big thing: I ran a marathon this last fall. And I don't think I'll ever do that again.
- I found a few of my toys destroyed. Two of them had melted together, somehow. One of them was clearly very inferior. The other, sadly, was Buster, one of my favorite ultra-stretch buttplugs. :( A couple of other toys had to go, too, as their material had simply deteriorated into a sticky mess over time. So listen: take it from me, silicon is the winner in "lasts over time" game. Acrylic, glass, and metal are good, too, but many plastics and most rubbers...no.
- I bought two new toys tonight! I will try to take some pics soon and post. For this, I visited Babeland in Soho, which I do not hesitate in recommending. The selection is not enormous, but is high quality. They do not sell junk there, folks. Consider it the Apple store of adult toy shops. And if you go there, tell them ButtPlugLover sent you. They'll have no idea what the hell you're talking about, but it's always nice to know about referrals.

Oct 5, 2008

Overwhelmed with work and life, but I got a crush

Sorry I haven't been posting. Nothing is happening that's optional, let me tell you that. My cats are neglected, my house is a mess, I'm just barely treading water here. I'm up to my nostrils in work and see no way of postponing or opting out of any of it, not at this point. I just need to make it through the next six weeks and things will be much better. In short, you'll hear from me again around Thanksgiving.

I did want to note, though, that I seem to have developed a crush. I am rarely attracted to other men, but it does happen now and then, and there has been this temporary employee brought in to do some specific jobs and he is awesome. I mean, everyone agrees he's awesome because of his talents, but that fact is, he reminds me a little of Mr. Big from Sex and The City. He has an easy, friendly style about him and I find myself fantasizing about going out with him. And by "going out with him", I mean "getting fucked senseless by him".

*sigh*

Sep 1, 2008

Aug 24, 2008

Getting back into the swing of things

Unfortunately, dear Readers, I am going to have to keep disappointing you with so few posts. I am insanely, psychotically busy these days - almost too busy to plug, even. My various jobs are keeping me peddling as fast as I can - and I need to, because I have bills to pay.

One of those bills, tho, might just have to be an invoice from Mr S Leather, where I found this new NJoy plug just for men:




On the personal plugging side of things, I am once again back to my habit of plugging as soon as I get home and sleeping most nights with a plug up my ass. I have been working on wearing the hard (and thus somewhat uncomfortable after a few hours) Anal Dilator for longer periods. A couple of nights ago, I managed to sleep with it in my happy asshole the whole night. But by the next night, my ass was too sore, so it was back to the standard plug.

I often where the Severin II when I'm out and about and have started sleeping with it in as well. The more I use it, the more I find it is my favorite item to fill my starving rectum with.

Feb 24, 2008

Pictures!

As promised, pictures. Apparently, I have NOT yet taken pictures of me and my new glass buttplug, but I'll get it done soon. In the meantime, I do have pics of me with an impromptu toy and me using an object of new fascination: a urethral sound. Keep in mind that what's visible in the first sound pic is only about 1/3 of its total length, and the second pic....? Hell, even I'M not sure where that sound is that I can get it in that deep. But there's no pain, no bother, and it can be curiously pleasurable. Why did I wait so long to open a new door???



Feb 12, 2008

Just checking in

Seems like there's so little time these days. I haven't been keeping up with this blog well because all my time is taken up with work and exercise. This doesn't mean I've stopped plugging - far from it - just that buttplugging has become kind of routine right now - there's not a lot new to tell. Winter tends to bring me down a bit, too, and what free time I do have is spent sleeping or reading.

Dec 22, 2007

gearing up for Christmas

Well, one of my readers, whom I've been talking with quite a bit over the last few months, sent me a Tantus Tulip large for Christmas.



Wasn't that nice of her? She is determined to teach me the art of the anal orgasm. I'm not sure I'm capable of that, but I'm sure as hell game for trying!

While looking on the Tantus website, I came across this:


I took one look and my rectum clamped down tight around the large Severin already in my ass. I went to bed last night with the large anal dilator in my butt - but I couldn't last the night with it. For some reason, I can't take that one for longer than four or five hours. So this morning I switched up to the Severin and have been enjoying that as I worked today. Tomorrow is also more work, so probably more continuous buttplug experience.

I'll be travelling for Christmas to see family. This will involve a couple hours of flight and a couple hours of driving, and I'm considering leaving home plugged and just stop at a gas station just before arriving at my destination to unplug for the duration of my stay. It would certainly make the whole trip a lot more pleasant!

Dec 15, 2007

counting down the days 'til Christmas

Well, the holiday season is just flying right by. I have no real news - hence to posts lately - though I did have a couple stretches of wearing the large Severin buttplug for almost 48 hours. It gets very hard to wear past 24 hours, mostly due to the pinching the base causes. That part could have been designed better, certainly. In between using the Severin plug, I've been using the large anal dilator a lot.

Interestingly, I got out a couple of older toys tonight for some shower play. One was a crystal-clear medium size dong buttplug that I think I've only used once before - I bought it on a trip when I hadn't brought along any toys and I was getting desperate. It's OK, but not really FILLING.

So I opted for King Dong instead when in the shower. I don't know what it is about fucking myself in the ass in the shower, but it really is quite nice. When I'm done - and done washing as well - I feel clean inside and out. Very satisfying.

Nov 22, 2007

No Country For Pinching Buttplugs

I really like the large Severin plug - I can wear it for about 12 hours before my body wants a break from it. I put it in about 2 p.m. today, so sometime in the middle of my sleep, I will probably have to wake up and take it out for the rest of the night. I'm trying to shorten my rest periods, too. The Severin really is a buttplug one could wear 24/7 if one got accustomed to it.

I do have two issues with it, though. One is that my body seems to reject it after some time - as in, it's like an allergic reaction and my asthma will get a little worse. I've done this enough that I'm pretty sure the slightly worse asthma is tied to long wearing of this buttplug. It doesn't happen with my plastic anal dilators. Perhaps it is the material the Severin is made of? That I've got a slight sensitivity to it? I don't worry about it too much because it's not like I get itchy or rashes or swollen sinuses or anything.

The other issue is that the base can pinch! I find it helps to apply a little bit of lubricant between the base of the plug and my cheeks - but that doesn't solve the pinching 100%. Oh, the plug is fine when I'm standing or walking, but sitting, especially on hard surfaces like the subway seats, can be a problem. Not sure what to do about it, though.

Still, I have had a nice Thanksgiving with my Severin buttplug. I wore it out to the movies tonight and watched the very good No Country For Old Men. I didn't think ahead well enough, and got trapped where I was sitting. Couldn't really cross eight people to get out mid-movie, you know - but jeez I really had to piss by the end of that flick! Not to mention adjust my buttplug to relieve some of the pinching. I finally got to do all that in the bathroom. I had to wait for a stall, of course, because even if I hadn't needed to adjust my buttplug, I was wearing stockings and garters and my underwear is sports-style - no flap in front. I really didn't want to bare the garter for all to see at the urinals, you know?

As for the movie: two thumbs up! Just the kind of fare one expects from the Cohen brothers, though the ending is ambiguous enough that it will bother some people. Personally, I've got a new role model, but I won't say who.

Nov 20, 2007

tribe.net

Mmmm...been sitting on my fat anal dilator most of the day, not even real horny, just enjoying the vibe.

Stumbled around on the net today. Found tribe.net. Interesting site, especially asslover.tribe.net. You'll probably have to create an account to go there, but accounts are free and they're not asking you for your full name. Lots of adult groups going on there. I've seen references to a buttpluglovers.tribe.net, but didn't get that to take me anywhere. Perhaps that group got closed.

I also found this video, which had me nearly peeing with laughter:
http://www.goyk.com/video.asp?path=2621

ah...cut and paste, you lazy assholes.

Yeah, I know there've been no new pics recently. So sorry; just need some alone time, you know?

Nov 15, 2007

When the unusual becomes the usual

You know that your strange and illicit habits involving anal lubrication have become a normalized, boring norm in your life when, groggy from sleep, you stumble into the bathroom, grab your toothbrush, and promptly squirt KY jelly onto the brush. Now what was I going to do with that? Brush my teeth, or shove the brush up my ass?